Sex is a biological need that almost everyone has. Of course, having sex is an important routine for married couples, so it is included in their daily activities.
Often there are problems that often occur in newly married couples, namely regarding prestige. This prestige actually makes a person unable to have sex with their partner in a more optimal way.
In fact, if you continue to maintain a sense of prestige, then your relationship with your partner can actually be problematic. You and your partner must stop being prestige for the following reasons.
1. You and he are a legal couple, so there’s no need to hesitate
wedding illustration (unsplash.com/@victoriapriessnitz)The first thing that must be kept in your mind is the current status of being officially married. Of course, with an official and legal status, there should be nothing that makes you doubt or actually maintain that sense of prestige.
Precisely with official status, then you and your partner can act freely. This will also clearly have an impact on the quality of the relationship.
2. Prestige will only have a bad impact on your relationship
illustration of fighting each other (pexels.com/@Kampus-Production)Prestige is not a wise attitude for every couple to do. Maintaining a sense of prestige is only part of the selfish attitude you have.
In fact, prestige can have a bad impact on your relationship in the future. This is even more difficult if one of them feels uncomfortable with the prestige shown, especially during sexual activity.
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3. Sexual quality can decrease because of prestige
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fight illustration (pexels.com/@Alex-Green)All couples certainly hope to have good sexual quality and can provide an important role in the relationship. However, things like this will be difficult to obtain if one of them still maintains a sense of prestige.
It is not impossible that your sexual quality with your partner will decrease. This could have an impact on the relationship in the future.
4. You and your partner have difficulty getting maximum satisfaction
intimate relationship illustration (pexels.com/@Andrea_Piacquadio)Doing sexual activity certainly aims to obtain maximum satisfaction. This is the main purpose of it.
In fact, sometimes, such examples don’t always go well. If each one still maintains a sense of prestige, then it is not impossible if you and your partner have difficulty getting that satisfaction.
5. Will only make it difficult for yourself
illustration of feeling confused (unsplash.com/e_sykes)Everyone is certainly the best solution for everything he does. Of course, this also includes the attitude taken.
If something is easy, of course there is no reason to choose the hard path. This is what will happen if you are stubborn in maintaining your prestige attitude. It’s not impossible, it will only make it difficult for yourself.
Keeping the attitude of prestige away from my relationship with my partner will certainly bring warmth and happiness. This will also make the relationship more interesting and full of warmth. Do not continue to save prestige, yes!
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