A person’s mood is not something you can control yourself. Usually this mood can actually be caused by various factors, from the surrounding situation to the activities carried out.
It’s not only adults who sometimes have problems in aspects of mood or mood, but also young children. That’s why parents must be alert in all conditions to help children overcome their moods that may be unstable.
To help overcome this, parents can do the following important things.
1. Asking the child to express his feelings
illustration of chatting with children (pexels.com/@Pixabay)The first thing you can do is ask your child to share their feelings. Sometimes, parents can only read the child’s mood through their expressions and responses to the activities they are doing.
In fact, of course parents also need to know in detail about the condition mood child. The way that can be done is to ask the child to be honest and open to express his feelings.
Thus, parents will understand the condition mood children and help find solutions.
2. Does not restrain the child’s feelings
illustration of a crying child (pexels.com/@Helena-Lopes)Having an unstable mood sometimes becomes something natural, especially if the child has activities that seem solid. That is why parents should not restrain their children’s feelings and force their children to always be happy or focus on what they are doing.
Restricting the child’s feelings will only make him feel uncomfortable. In addition, children will also find it difficult to identify every feeling they have.
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3. Invite children to discuss to find a solution
illustration of talking to children (pexels.com/@PNW-Production)Parents should not be apathetic about the feelings that children have. Of course, parents must also participate in finding solutions through discussions.
You as a parent can ask about the things that the child wants or can help restore his mood. Thus, at least the child has a better mood after that.
4. Provide encouragement and support
illustration of encouraging children (pexels.com/@Elina_Fairytale)One of the factors or reasons that make children have mood which is not stable is because the activity is too dense. Children will feel tired, bored, and tend to be lazy to do other things.
Parents who are the closest figures to children certainly have an important role to always encourage children and provide full support. Of course, this way can at least provide its own happiness and a better mood.
5. Raise the child’s mood with various things he likes
illustration of children’s toys (pexels.com/@Tatiana-Syrikova)Parents are certainly the closest figures for children who know them very closely. Of course there are things that children like and can be used to improve their mood.
There is nothing wrong if parents want to raise the condition mood child through the things he likes. Thus, the child will return happy and forget for a moment the condition mood-its unstable.
Of course, it is necessary for parents to have their own sensitivity in seeing the child’s mood. Do not let the child feel uncomfortable, but parents seem to continue to force it. Take good care of your child, OK?
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