The reason women tend to be passive in sexual matters, prestige?

Sex is a biological need that almost everyone has. For married couples, sex is likened to an important activity that is routinely carried out on a daily basis.

Of course, with the existence of sex which is important for couples, the relationship that exists also feels more intimate. However, there are significant differences between women and men in attitudes about sex. If men seem to be dominant and active, women are just the opposite, namely passive in having sex. This could be caused by the following things.

1. Not used to being open about sex

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Men may have a strong tendency to be vocal about their sexual interests. This is clearly the opposite direction when compared to women.

Usually women are very secretive about their sex affairs. This makes women more secretive in showing their interest in sex.

2. Have high self-esteem about sex

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Somehow, women have a unique perception of sex related to self-esteem. Usually, women associate sex with self-esteem so that it can be seen from how they behave.

Women feel they have high self-esteem when it comes to sex, so they are reluctant to appear active. They are better able to control themselves so they can behave well.

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3. Tend to be prestige to start

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There is a certain stigma that it is usually men who tend to be dominant in sex. This has become a habit and principle held by the average woman.

Usually, women will feel prestige if they are too active in sexual matters. Prestige is what makes them tend to hold themselves well.

4. Don’t want to be labeled as weird because it’s too dominant

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Usually, men have their own perceptions when they see their partners seem active in sex. In fact, not infrequently this perception has a negative connotation.

This is what makes women reluctant to dominate sexual matters for fear of being labeled strange. They also become reluctant to dominate the sexual activity that is carried out.

5. Worry about being too aggressive

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Worry also alights in every woman’s mind if she acts too aggressively in sexual matters. This even happens often, especially for newly married couples.

This concern is related to their sexual activity because they are worried that it will be done in the wrong way or will not provide maximum satisfaction. It’s no wonder that many women finally choose to understand themselves.

With some of the things above, it is not surprising that most women actually feel passive in having sex. However, not all women have a preference for doing the same. Not a few women who actually do not bother and still be aggressive in having sex. It just depends on individual preferences, yes!

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